Being a few and autistic makes me feel hopeless
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While I have no race/ethnicity tastes, Women typically are mostly interested in buying dating men of their own "Race/ethnicity, So if you a minority of any ethnicity your dating pool just isn as big as a great deal just simple math.
This wouldn be an issue for me but Black women only make up in my area somewhere less than 10% of the feminine population (Though seems like less since I don get to interact as heavily with alot of Black women and few live near me). typically I beautiful young chinese girls
rarely ever encounter Black women who are into nerds, And always no one anywhere close to being on the autism spectrum. Guys who come off any sort of way weird are shunned pretty quickly, You need to be "Cool/hip" To also compete.
Then you will find the issue with stereotypes and racism.
Being a minority stereotypes follow you everywhere and affect all aspects ever from your employment to dating.
So if I were to talk to a White or Asian woman I be rejected 80 90% of times instantly just for being Black alone.
Unfortunately it been my experience that half the girls that might be open to interracial dating are more attracted to the idea of dating a stereotype than the actual person.
So volumes are skewed unfavorably.
I find it hard to sense who is attracted and who isn unless someone shows me some overt impossible to miss signs so basically they have to tell me directly, So since no one will ever do that I basically approach girls completely blind.
Besides making it difficult to notice social cues, Since nothing comes naturally I have straight into my every reply, dissect (Someone makes a strange face I have to dig into my memories to find out what they are trying to say) And cross reference your position, and many more. All chances of ever having a attachment were already out of question. unhealthy kind of nerd, Those meek versions. I don know if could very well autism, But I am bad at social relationships, very cringing levels of bad. truly being "typically" top (5 people here are over way taller than that) Is not assisting to either.
I mean it as an authentic question: Have you tried discussing with Asian women? honestly, you will find a strong racial bias there: They prefer white guys over all others. OKC data showed that Asian and Black women are specifically negative to their personal ethnicity. But Asian women in many cases go for the nerdy/autistic guys. you already have two traits working in your favour: Tall and a high quality (simply well paying) job. So maybe there may be nothing hope there.
As for dating Asian women tbh I haven simply tried. I mainly just been trying to date Black women, as well as White, And now and then Latina women but that doesn seem to be working out. I find Asian women attractive but I always thought they weren all that fascinated by Black guys.
Though now that I consider this I generally get along with Asians really well as racist experiences have been extremely rare and many of my good friends have been Asian so I guess I don seem too weird.
Like one female friend I had a girl I met in education who was from Thailand (She eventually passed back). While we never dated since she had a boyfriend she was most likely the best female friend I had. Besides being a good lab partner she seemed to be genuinely eager about my well being and a fun, smart, Cool person to get along with. She even experimented with help set me up on a date with a friend of hers. While her friend wasn interested in me that rare act of kindness was appreciated.
Which was refreshingly different would certainly female "classmates" I had were pretty bad as in there are their back but they don have yours. Acting friendly and end up using me like this one girl I tutored for free in computer science and after she passed the class she didn want to talk to or hang out with me anymore.
for which it worth, When I was bouncing around hostels during your search for apartment, I met this cute african Guy Asian Girl couple. Tbh, The guy was way better looking than your ex (n' homo). But they were quite lovey dovey the time they are there and quite happy too. As is normal, Couples go along well to couples, So they made friends with couples.